I cannot believe I’ve been in Paris for a week and a half already! I have so much to update on, so get a snack & be prepared…
So: the first couple of days in Paris were a little blurry. I was super jet lagged- I have never experienced disorientation like that before. Paris is 9 hours ahead of San Francisco. It took me literally a week to get a good amount of sleep (I kept waking up at 2 a.m. ready to start my day….) But if I’m being honest, I’m still adjusting to the time change. I believe day 2 of being here- I just slept ALL DAY LONG. A total of 17 hours of on/off sleep. Just got up to use the restroom and eat a little something.
Fast forward to day 4: it was a boat tour on the Seine River with my school! It was GORGEOUS…. but it was FREEZING! I sat on the top of the boat for awhile until I went inside to get warm. I think the mixture of the temperature/weather change and traveling got me sick! By the end of the night I started feeling my throat act a little funny—- and I just knew: fuck, I’m getting sick.
So, let’s talk about the weather here in Paris. I’m from California, so I’m super spoiled with “good” weather. Living in the Bay Area, the weather is mild and doesn’t get that cold. I didn’t even know what COLD was, until I arrived in Paris. I know some people will roll their eyes reading this: but you have to consider where I’m from, and what I’m used to. The first week was FREEZING. I would wake up, and mornings would be 25 degrees out (Fahrenheit). The Canal Saint Martin, right by my flat, was actually partially frozen on top! My landlord even mentioned that it was very rare for that to happen, and it usually isn’t this cold in Paris. By mid-day it would be 34 degrees out, so I’m not used to this weather! Luckily today was a beautiful 53 degrees outside! GLORIOUS! I’ll just say, I cannot wait for Springtime to come!
Another hard thing I’ve had to face is just being alone and depending solely on myself. I am renting my own studio apartment, here in Paris. I have never “lived” completely alone. It’s always been me and my parents, then me and my boyfriend. SO, that’s been a huge adjustment. I don’t have Lola Mae with me- and everyone knows how much I love that little dog. It made me realize how lonely it can get. Lola Mae is in good hands- my parents have agreed to watch her while I’m here in Paris (thanks mom! I know you’re reading this!)
One of the main reasons why I decided to do study abroad— was to get out of my COMFORT ZONE. I have been going on the metro alone, getting around Paris alone, and exploring alone. These are things I’m not used to doing. These are things I’d usually share with someone else. But having these experiences is changing me, and helping me grow as an individual. I wanted this challenge, and Paris has been challenging me a lot…… whew!
Here are some pretty pictures I’ve taken so far:
*all images are my own. follow me on instagram for more: @krystalinthecity
Another struggle I’ve faced while being here: the language barrier! I feel like the movie, LOST IN TRANSLATION sometimes. It’s so hard not being able to communicate with people on a everyday basis. Of course I’m trying my best, and people have been nice about me speaking English…. while others have not. I guess it just depends on the person. But, I am taking a french class here! So I hope I know more words than: Bonjour, Merci, Au Revior, Pardon, and Parlez-vous anglais?
Let’s see how the next few weeks go! It’s been a total adjustment period: I’m living in a new country alone, and I don’t speak the language. It’s scary. But I’m up for the challenge. I knew this wouldn’t be easy. I know it’s going to be worth it! I know years and years from now, I can tell my kids that I moved to Paris when I was 24 years old, all by myself. I explored the city and ate delicious croissants and macarons! I know I’ll be proud of myself when I do end up looking back at this chapter in my life… so I’m going to soak it all in: the good, the bad, and the ugly.